As everyone else has said most staff already looks at bans (or at least I do) to help determine your sentence. I'm not gonna give someone the max ban if it's their first offense and vice versa for multiple offenses.
As cool as it sounds, I don't really feel like it really has enough applications to really be useful/worth adding to the server. Maybe get it added as a CC item if you can?
So sorry to hear this Mason, divorce is never easy no matter which position it is effecting you in. As cheesy as it sounds, the only way an arrow is to fly forward is to be pulled back.
If you need anything my PM's are always open. Keep your head up.