The easiest solution to your problem is to create and develop your own server, then implement your mindset to it. Facepunch ToS covers single player and multi-player, it's for the game as a whole.
No its called Tits, the old owner was Sugar Tits.
At the end of the day if parents don't somewhat moderate what their children play it is not up to everyone else. Everyone has fun in a different way, if you see this much issue ( which sounds like you definitely won't like at least 70% of the playerbase) with the server as a whole you can do what I mentioned in this reply and the last, and/or talk to Rubik.