Okay yeah but that's mostly due to player influence. Most in-game stuff is pretty good.
There are plenty of things to do that don't involve basing or raiding.
Yeah can't exactly deny THIS statement but that happens to everyone because of a select few people in a select few groups. Most of us aren't like that.
As other players have already stated, there are ups and downs on every server and these lows are pretty consistent with the normal flow and population of TitsRP. There will be a time soon enough that we we will have so many players, the afk timer will activate.
My advice? Try and have some fun.