1000% agree with OP. I have literally never seen someone do a kidnapping that was within RP, not once. It's like mugging. Sure, it makes sense that you would be able to do it, but when you're actually playing the game it's just a "valid" reason to minge. Nobody ever wants a ransom, just like nobody ever actually wants the money they're mugging you for. They're just looking for a reason to waste your time, kill you, or both.